Stars Align for Mother-Daughter Duo Graduating Together from School of Social Welfare
When Jerry McKay walks across the stage on May 16 to receive her Master of Social Work (MSW) degree from the University of Kansas School of Social Welfare, she knows the moment will be emotional. But what makes it even more extraordinary is who’s walking the stage just before her — her youngest daughter, Jacquelyn McKay, earning the same degree.
“I didn't cry then, but I'm feeling it coming now,” Jerry said. “She's my last kid, and now we’re graduating together. We didn’t expect this. It’s all brand new, and a lot of emotions are starting to come up. I’m really starting to reflect.”
The moment wasn’t planned, but it couldn’t have been more perfectly timed. The stars simply aligned.
Jerry’s journey to this milestone has been long and winding. She took her time earning her bachelor’s degree in psychology, choosing to put her family first. Jacquelyn, too, took a brief pause in her education before returning to complete her Bachelor of Social Work and later entering KU’s Advanced Standing MSW program. Jerry, meanwhile, was pursuing the two-year online MSW track. Their paths unknowingly converged, ultimately bringing them to the same graduation stage.
The two even shared classes, something that brought unexpected joy and connection.
“It’s so funny because everybody in class now knows that’s my mom,” Jacquelyn said. “Originally, that wasn’t the case. I find it neat and fun.”
Despite their close bond, Jerry and Jacquelyn bring different strengths to the field of social work. Jerry’s experience spans crisis services, education, and justice reform. She’s also known for her creativity, making diaper cakes on the side. Jacquelyn focuses on youth and educational equity, including a practicum at Kansas City Girls Preparatory Academy. Together, they dream of one day building something impactful — perhaps a nonprofit that draws on their shared passion and complementary skills.
“I could see us working together,” Jacquelyn said. “Something like building a nonprofit. It just makes sense.”
For others watching their inspiring achievement, both women have powerful messages.
Jacquelyn reminds others: “Your educational journey is your educational journey. You are never too old to go after your dreams.”
And Jerry offers her wisdom: “Be fearless in achieving your dreams, and trust and have faith in God.”
On graduation day, the McKay's will celebrate more than academic success. They’ll celebrate perseverance, timing and the unbreakable bond between a mother and daughter who made it to the finish line together.